You can ravish your woman so deeply that her surrender breaks your heart into light.

 
 

Men’s Coaching

Do you want to feel powerful in your sexuality—not performative?
Do you want to be the kind of lover who’s not just good in bed, but unforgettable in presence?

I work with men who are ready to stop hiding behind shame, porn, perfectionism, or pressure—and start reclaiming sex as a source of confidence, clarity, and connection.

Whether you’re navigating:

  • Sexual dysfunction

  • Compulsive behaviors or addiction

  • Guilt or fear around your desires

  • Difficulty staying present or lasting in intimacy

  • A disconnection from your body or your partner...

This work meets you at the root.

We strip it back. We slow it down.
We rewire your relationship to sex—not through performance hacks or pickup tricks, but through embodiment, emotional depth, and erotic integrity.

Through somatic tools, breathwork, nervous system retraining, self-pleasure, and deep guided inquiry, we get to the truth of who you are as a man, a lover, and a whole human.

This is not about being “better” at sex.
This is about becoming more fully yourself—and letting that be magnetic.

You get to be both powerful and vulnerable.
Commanding and receptive.
Dominant and emotionally available.

Because that’s what makes you unforgettable.

How do you know if this is for you…

  • Whether in a relationship or you are dating you feel anxiety around your performance, you are stuck in your head and don’t know how to confidently connect with and satisfy your lover

  • You feel out of control with your sexual urges and engage in sexual encounters that do not feel aligned or you later regret

  • You struggle with porn addiction and recognize it is having an impact on your sexuality and relationships 

  • Sex is great however you find it hard to create intimate emotional connections with your partner, you have a hard time opening up and being vulnerable.

  • You struggle with communicating what you need and you desire in your intimate relationships 

  • You have lost your sex drive, life feels dull and you are looking to feel more alive, confident and empowered

Greg T, Annapolis MD

“Kristin saved my marriage. After the first session, the vector of my life shifted substantially for the better. For most of my 30+ year marriage, I had been relatively content expect for one thing - our sex life. Sure raising kids, pursuing careers and family obligations highjacked intimacy. But even when we had sex it was unfulfilling. I wanted a little more adventure, a little more kink, and yes typical for a guy just plain more. I tried talked, I tried writing notes, I bought books but nothing seemed to work.

Kristin steered me away from my agenda to a more holistic view of sexuality. She taught me about the dynamics of the masculine and feminine and worked with me on practical approaches and techniques.

“The result? My relationship with my wife, in all aspects, improved dramatically. Our sex life became more passionate, creative and fun. We started making and executing our “empty nest” plans. At the core it was Kristin’s insight, knowledge, and caring that changed me and enabled that renewal, I am eternally grateful.”