Client Testimonials

Kristin asked me to trust a process I didn’t know much about, it felt mysterious to me and I didn’t know what the destination was, or how we were going to get there. But deep in my gut I knew that Kristin had some of the medicine that I needed, I took a leap of faith.

I said yes because there was a deep and still part of me that felt like it was safe to explore my resistance to love with her. She felt like someone who wasn’t going to ask me to disown my truth for her own, but who was going to ask me to sit with my truth, get curious, and have a new relationship with it. Which is more or less exactly what she did, plus or minus some magic. 

Now, there is no ring on my finger, (yet), but Kristin guided me through the wilderness of my fears around self-love, partner-love, and intimacy, and into a place of being open and receiving romantic and intimate love from a person who I believe to be my lifetime partner. 

I definitely recommend Kristin - I know that even if you’ve got a hold of your own deep sexuality and sensuality as a creaturely human, she will help you claim even more of that fire inside and outside of relationships with others. As much as she helped me find love, she mostly helped me find myself in love, which allowed me to accept the love of the other as a gift and to let my wild and naked self roam across the skin and desires of myself and of the other. 

-- Ash W, Creative Writing Mentor, WA

I developed vaginismus in 2009. Vaginismus basically means my pussy would tense up involuntarily, making sex and OBGYN visits very painful and traumatizing. Over time my condition worsened and I finally reached the point where I did not even want to be touched by my husband. We rarely had sex and it was always painful, and my libido had totally shut down. I felt a lot of shame, I was embarrassed, resentful of myself and my husband, felt disconnected, incomplete, a failure as a woman. After years of struggling with this condition, I felt totally undesirable and undeserving of pleasure. This is an embarrassing issue that no one understands, and one that most doctors don't take seriously and haven't even heard of. 

 I'd already resigned to a lifetime of pain and of missing the pleasure and raging libido I once had. I hated myself for how I'd lost that part of me, and I hated my broken vagina for betraying me. I would masturbate in shame-filled quickies when my husband wasn't around, and then I'd feel guilty for wasting an orgasm on myself rather than sharing it with him. Bleak. You can Imagine how resistant I was to believing Kristin when she told me that self pleasure makes a sexual partnership even better. (spoiler: she was right!)

 I thought I was hopeless, so I was afraid to make the investment and risk losing my money or worse, ending up disappointed again.

After working with Kristin I experienced a total identify shift. I developed a much deeper connection to myself both physically and mentally, acceptance and expectance of pleasure, fucking amazing orgasms and sex with my husband (really thought we'd lost the spark!), deeper levels of self trust and self accountability (which is crucial to seeing the results of this work!), more confidence/stronger throat chakra/and ability to speak my needs both in and out of the bedroom, guilt-free and fun masturbation (don't even need porn!), ability to watch sex scenes in movies without hating myself (and actually getting excited instead!), my husband's new moves!!! he has been adventurous, exploratory, and eager to please, my ability to show skin and curves without feeling shame, an awareness and excited OWNING of my sexuality, my pussy and I are friends again and I even love her now. I feel like a WOMAN for the first time in my life.

I recommend working with Kristin 10000%. Even if you don't have physical pain to start, just the deeper connection to your self and sexuality is so powerful. Kristin actually understood what I was going through, and that in and of itself made me trust her because no one had ever taken me seriously before. She understood that my physical issues were created by deeply embedded emotional trauma and programming that required real work to process through, and she took her time with me and focused on my mental and emotional blocks before diving into our more physical practices that she knew I wouldn't be ready for just yet. She helped me to foster feelings of self trust and partner trust that did not exist before, and she held me accountable. I felt really safe with her because she understood me, so it allowed me to approach our work together with complete honesty and vulnerability. 

This work is fucking life changing.

—Shantal M, Sales Specialist, AtlantaEVERY HUMAN BEING NEEDS THIS WORK 

When I met Kristin my life was good,  but I didn’t know how to be open and honest about my sexuality. I realized how much I was suppressing my desires and creativity. I was not able to voice what I needed and wanted, firstly to myself and then to my partner.  There was so much guilt and shame driving my day to day behavior, thoughts and feelings which left me in a space of quiet suffering and isolation.\

At first I hesitated working with Kristin because I was afraid of what I might uncover about myself.  I was worried that it wouldn't work or that I would fail. I was afraid of what it might do to my relationship.  But over the years I have worked with therapists, physical trainers, pharmaceuticals, all the things you are supposed to do when facing fear, anxiety and depression which never provided lasting results. What resonated about Kristin’s approach was the way she connected sexual energy to creative and life force energy.  I could see that at the core of my suffering was a disconnection to my wild primal erotic energy… so I decided to take the leap. 

After working with Kristin my self talk is so much better, which has enabled me to have an open, connected dialogue with my partner.  After 17 years of marriage and 2 kids we are now having best sex we’ve ever had in our life! It is passionate, spontaneous, connected.  I know how to take personal responsibility for myself.  I feel so much more resourced and capable of handling difficult life situations.  Gratitude is my natural state of being. I feel open to ALL of life because I am no longer repressing my emotions. I am able to give my shame and guilt a voice and meet it with acceptance and loving presence. 

I felt incredibly safe with Kristin and trusted her guidance fully. Her sessions are incredibly intuitive. Kristin picked up on exactly what I needed and provided so much support not just in sessions but in between sessions too.

Working with Kristin is like getting a permission slip to fully be yourself.  She showed me its OK to have wants and desires that are outside the Hallmark Disney story arc and how to navigate them with integrity and consciousness.

—Peter K, Missoula MT

Following my intuition to work with Kristin has literally been the single best decision I have made in my life. I’m not exaggerating in the slightest.

When I became aware of her coaching practice I felt challenged and threatened just by witnessing her openness and radiance, and I knew that there was something in me that was reacting out of a fearful, hurting and pretty broken place. I knew that something had to change in me, and I couldn’t do it myself.

I actually spent so many years trying to find “My Path”, going around in circles and constantly getting in my own way as I looked everywhere else for the solution apart from truly inside myself. Without Kristin I might never have got off that treadmill, working hard to go nowhere.

The work that we have done together (not gonna lie, it can be fucking hard work) has freed me of the bondages of an unintegrated self. The power which my insecurities, attachments, traumas, and ideologies held over my relationship with myself and the world around me have been so profoundly diminished, and the positive changes are rippling through every dimension of my life and growing all the time...

I walk day by day as a man now, deeply different in so many ways to the one I was twelve months ago. I’m truly happy in a way that I haven’t felt before. I will never have the words to express the gratitude I owe Kristin. The integrity and commitment that she approaches her calling with are matched by her passion and wisdom, not to mention her psychic intuition that sees where I should be focusing our energies before I know myself.

The juicy squishy love Kristin emanates is totally contagious; as in I can’t help but to pay it forward into the world once I felt the warmth of true self love and real acceptance.

I’ve just got to say to you (even though words don’t suffice), Kristin, that I thank you with all of the love and freedom within me. Not a day goes by that I don’t send a prayer of gratitude your way.

—AT, Australia, Teacher

Coaching with Kristin is such a powerful experience. She holds such a grounded and empowered space, and she is one of the most understanding and non-judgmental people I know. Our work together allowed me to surrender more deeply and open up to a deeper vulnerability that is often times incredibly challenging for me. I am so grateful to feel the way our few sessions together have allowed me to open up more and more to the woman I am desiring to become.

Her reflections are always spot on, and she always guides with deep understanding, gentleness, and love. Although her guidance is gentle and loving, the processes she leads you through are very deep and profound. I highly, highly recommend working with Kristin. Sexuality is so important, and it’s such a gift to find a coach that is in deep integrity with this kind of work. Thank you, Kristin!

- Whitney U. California

Kristin saved my marriage. After the first session, the vector of my life shifted substantially for the better. For most of my 30+ year marriage, I had been relatively content expect for one thing - our sex life. Sure raising kids, pursuing careers and family obligations highjacked intimacy. But even when we had sex it was unfulfilling. I wanted a little more adventure, a little more kink, and yes typical for a guy just plain more. I tried talked, I tried writing notes, I bought books but nothing seemed to work.

Kristin steered me away from my agenda to a more holistic view of sexuality. She taught me about the dynamics of the masculine and feminine and worked with me on practical approaches and techniques.

“The result? My relationship with my wife, in all aspects, improved dramatically. Our sex life became more passionate, creative and fun. We started making and executing our “empty nest” plans. At the core it was Kristin’s insight, knowledge, and caring that changed me and enabled that renewal, I am eternally grateful.

—Greg S, NY, Engineer